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People sometimes ask how I’m doing since the death of my husband a little over a month ago. While I miss him in many ways, I’m doing fine. I’ve been too busy to feel sorry for myself!

Work at the newspaper takes up a large part of my time. Due to work hours, it’s been difficult to do the cleaning, sorting and organizing I’d like to do at home. A lot of things were put on hold during Lynn’s illness. I’m gradually sorting through accumulations of paperwork, etc.

I came across an article from AARP about how to make your children angry with you after you die. One way is to leave a mess for your ch...