Growing old gracefully: the hope of every mature person. The truth is that opinions differ.

AARP Bulletin shed some light on the “full breadth of aging issues, from health and finances to attitudes about happiness, home, optimism and even dying.” The research shows that overall, the average American over 60 sees themselves much differently than younger generations see them. The aging process is relentless, in spite of a healthy lifestyle. Even with chronic medical issues, they consider themselves “healthy with conditions.” I have to agree, and with high blood pressure, arthritis and hearing loss, I still consider my health to be good.

I don’t readily recognize the “man in the mirror.” Reality bites. I can’t bowl, my knees don’t bend, I've stopped jogging, my hips hurt, and I had plastic surgery on my drooping eyelids to improve vision.

One of the participants in the study is quoted, “I just wake up in the morning, eat a handful of pills, and go about my day.” I wish it were that easy.

Predictions of 79 million or more Americans over the age of 65 by 2035 is not unreasonable. The government should stress the importance of investment to young people because it is a fact that 93% of older adults interviewed rely on Social Security. Food and financial insecurity take their physical and emotional toll on many elders.

Change takes time, but, “A hundred years from now, where are we going to be? So whatever’s making you sad today won’t matter when you leave.”