The winner – even when you lost

You’ve surely seen them. The people in your life that rarely look at the glass as half empty. To them, having a half-empty glass just means they can go fill it to the brim with whatever they choose. But to a person who is discouraged, depressed and feeling victimized by endless defeats, a Constantly Contented Connie can be absolutely irritating to be around.

We commonly refer to the two attitudes as Victor and Victim mindsets.

Victors. They have decided to be just that. They have already decided that they will play the long game. Sure, they remember the defeats, the heartaches, the horrible ti...